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Self Esteem dives into her own head in the video for ‘Your Wife’
Rebecca Taylor presents a “sexy yet disgusting” inner world.

Last month, Slow Club’s Rebeca Taylor emerged as Self Esteem with the track ‘Your Wife’. Produced by Django Django’s Dave Mclean, the tune – which is officially out on 24th November via Kick and Clap – pushed her musical boundaries and also saw her ruminating on an increasingly male-dominated world.
Now Rebecca’s got a new video for the track, that’s lavish on the one hand but a little surreal on the other. In it, she rubs lotion on a guy, who reciprocates the gesture, eats the world’s biggest leg of meat straight from the bone, pulls some strong body-builder poses, gets a pizza delivered to her and surrounds herself with ‘Charlie’ perfume (don’t say you never used it).
Speaking of the video, Rebecca said: “I wanted to make a video that looked like the inside of my head. A world where we are sexy yet disgusting, we eat Domino’s pizza like caviar, everyone is tight and oiled and I bathe in pre-brexit 5ers. Welcome”.
Watch the video for ‘Your Wife’ below.
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